Run For Your Life!



Life is a CHASE. A never ending run.

People tend to be different with each other in every distinct and specific ways. But the common denominator we have as a human being is a PURSUIT.  We persons, all run for one thing called Happiness. A heightened emotion,  a state of mind, we pursue them. Temporary yet we fight for it.

God gave us emotions, which I think included in the biggest questions of my life. Why do God gave that to human beings. I know it may sound so absurd but it should be the one to blame because of inequality in life, greed, suffering and hardships. You know why? Because we fight for it everyday. We struggle to better ourselves. We get a job because we have so many wants in life that makes us feel happy, we eat delicious foods to make savor ourselves, we play to win in order for us to feel winners, we do social networking because it gives us sense of belonging in the community and so many things that we do is rooted from our emotions. When we get angry, we feel some sort of bad feeling inside us and we do everything just to hype up our emotions. Emotion is a BITCH! She’s spoiled. Imagine a world without it. No feelings getting involved thus no one’s gonna hurt. Have you ever had to think of it?

I’ve seen three people that is very close to my life that died in front of my eyes. My Grandfather who had a serious lung disease, died after my father and him reconciled from a long gap they had. My Grandmother who had fought cancer for 5 years died inside my own room. And the most tragic that I had experienced was my youngest brother. At the age of nearly 2 years old, he passed away a month before my grandmother died. He inherited a disease from our family, Leukemia. It was very brutal for me at my age back then when I see these kinds of events but nevertheless, it opened my eyes. I felt devastated but what bothers me most is the fact that people reacts about other people no matter what and in any kinds of situations and to think of it, it was deeply associated with emotions.

Maybe God gave us that not to see how bad it does. But because when we feel bad we appreciate the good feeling. He gave it for us to feel, to appreciate, to be Human. God created the world in twins. He made pros and cons, positives and negatives, good and bad. He made light out of darkness for us to see how important light is. He portrayed Right out of Wrong for us to see the differences and results. He made Life out of Death so that we feel limited time for ourselves. All are with two sided coins.

All of us is going to die, and if you know you are dying, you will know how to live. You’ll see life by the other side of it’s coin and start to scrape off unnecessary things that you do. Then that’s how we should live. My point is, emotions are the one that sets us out from non-living things but don’t let it control the boat. It’s enough that we feel the gush of the water pounding, the calmness of the lake, the thrilling waves, but don’t let it affect which direction we are going to. Don’t base your decisions from temporary feelings.

We might chase life but it’s not what we chase more important, it is the whole story of your chase that matters….


Real Men Keep Their Issues Sealed Up.


Men are entirely different in women, no questions about that.They are most of the time accused of being insensible and stubborn on the way they react silent on conflicting issues. While most of the women are explosive, who shouts their thoughts out loud and wouldn’t waste a single second on expressing their feelings, men are implosive, keeping their acts uptight and digest emotions.

I know that you might think that this blog contains nothing but thoughts of defamation against woman but its not. This will explain why men have certain behaviors and what thoughts are running through their minds.


People have certain stigmas that produce certain anger. Its just that men have more wider margins for anger but after they’ll pass that margin it has a catalyst effect on shooting up on rage. If your husband/partner would tell you in a normal conversation that they are not jealous of somebody, they are 75% lying. They are imaginatively thinking of bad things other people would take advantage of. Its just that men smooth out the jealous feelings because they know that it wouldn’t do good without proper base on what to be jealous of. But once proven with valid reasons to be jealous of, men become explosive and hard to control. They have a longer span on forgetting than women. They keep it in their hearts sealed with thoughts but wouldn’t talk about it until such time and situation would let that flow out.


This is probably the great unique feature that man does. They Invest part of their selves trying to look strong, good, and unaffected with shield covering their real insights and emotions on a present issue they are dealing with. Self image is a great necessity for them. It’s like fixing their hair with a stroke of the hand in a middle of an commotion, seems to be stable, moves flawless then answer to a the question “I’m fine”, leaves the scene then slam the car’s door real hard. They value what others would think of them and what would they say about them. Would they look stupid, would they look like a girl, a child or immature. They understand not only the issues itself but the whole circle of the people that looks upon the issue.


Men fear as if it looks like they don’t. Did you know that men have more fear of loosing than women? Certainly. It is just that they don’t express it. They hide behind their manly, masculine image. It’s not that they are afraid. Fear and being afraid are different. They just knew that what they want is more important than their fears. They keep this fear as an invincible factor believing that showing it means being vulnerable and might bring to what outcome they don’t want.


Decision plays a major role in men. It’s like they know what they want but would think of thousand times before deciding for it. People who had a rough time with their “identity vs role confusion” stage are more likely to have difficulties and slower patterns of decision. Men took more angle and perspective in deciding with comparison with women. They’ll think of the effect on their partner, parents, siblings, boss, workmates, society, friends and social networking connections. A fact that men have lesser status updates in their social networking sites just reveals that they, as much as possible, keep everything private while women have different views with privacy. Men Have the thinking of what decisions they are going to make has no turning back. When women ask men to do something or to commit to something, women tends to get hanging answers and uncertainty with a very pleasant speech delivery. If they asked men to go for lunch over their family’s Sunday barbecue, Men would say “It’ll be lovely and that would be fun and I’ll try to come”. It’s not always because they are busy but its because they’ll think it first for a dozen times before they’ll commit for a decision they can’t afford to miss.

Déjà Vu.. How does it work.


Have you ever had the moment when you know that a certain place, situation or things in present had already happened in the past? Creepy right?

I was in my college days back when I first questioned how do these things happen. While attending my English class, whom my professor was a Psychology major, we encountered a topic where which I was selected to stand for a recitation to explain my perception regarding  a story we have read. Along the discussion, we have narrowed down to one aspect of the story, “Mind Control”. Out of curiosity I stood up and raised my hand to asked my teacher, “If  Mind control is true, then we can practice and enhance it?”…. My Professor, stared at me, then made a grin.. By the time I know I had struck not only her attention but the whole class. The room were filled with silence for a few seconds until my professor started to reply, “Yes, that’s the power of mind”.

After a couple of years from that situation, I worked in a company where the spirits should always be high and there is no room for pessimism- network marketing. There I learned a lot. Most of my permanent principles in life were taught not in school but in my work back then. Most importantly my questions about the “Power of Mind” and “Deja Vu” were finally answered.

In a series of training I learned about the most valuable lessons I ever had. “LAW OF ATTRACTION”. This is a system, a simple basic understanding on how things works in the universe. To discuss it here in this blog I would need at least couple of days in your life but don’t worry I wont. I rather suggest you read or watch “THE SECRET” by Rhonda Byrne.

“Whatever the mind can Conceive and Believe the mind can Achieve”


Now, to answer the questions about Deja Vu, we need to see the basics of Law of Attraction. The Principle is that whatever you are thinking, you are attracting it and the universe will respond. Whether it is good or bad it will respond. The more you think you’re getting late, the more you become late. The more you think you loose profit, the more it will happen. The more you think you will become rich, the more it will happen.

In answering Deja Vu, we need to understand that it happened first in our DREAMS and it happened second as a Deja Vu. In dreaming, we are “Subconcious“. A state where we still think and draw a perfect image of surrounding, things and situations using the “Power of Mind“. In this state, we “Visualize”. Avery good tool in “Law of Attraction”. And also in this we don’t “doubt”, a powerful negative tool that delays the attraction process.




We would just be so amazed as soon as we encounter these moments and soon we’ll realize that we are the one who made that happen.


I have a drill for you to do to help you realize how effective power of the mind is.

Place your palms together and determine which middle finger is much longer, Left hand or Right hand. Then close your eyes, raise your hand with the shorter finger (in case you have equal length of both fingers raise any of your hand). After settling yourself in a quiet form, VISUALIZE your middle finger getting longer.. Visualize it adding length for a period of at least 15 seconds. Then you open your eyes and check the length with the other finger. You’ll be SURPRISED!!! To return it to it’s size before, redo the same steps but now Visualize it getting shorter. You’ll be surprised again….


All things are created twice. First in the mind.